I'm pretty, intelligent and sweet.....WHY CANT I FIND A MAN???!!!?

maybe you need to lower your expectations, you're already rejecting so many friends, and if you keep doing it, they all will be gone, and you see you're not young anymore to even find an average friend you had once before :) do something, sure you are cool and great, but you need to look more than just appearance in guys, try to get to know them, then you'll love one :)