Gay guys, can I ask you a question?

You actual sound like a good friend. To me any one that takes the time to see if there behavior is offensive is really cool. Now for the subject at hand. This has been a process for me cause, If I know the girl it is diff. ( the Secretary in my office does it and it is all in good fun.) But when it comes to being out on the street I really hate it. There are times when I am walking with my boyfriend and a girl will want to say in that way and I try to be Sibel but it is not easy. ( but on the flip side I try not to stare at straight guys now, cause I know what that feels like.)